Merry Christmas Everyone,
This is such a wonderful time of year. I know it is hard to enjoy this time when you are juggling work, a loved one with Alzheimer's, and home life. Take a little advice. First take a deep breath and try to relax. When you are with your loved one with Alzheimer's don't make it a loud experience. Keep the music low, and pace your self. Try to remember what your loved one use to do to make the holiday special. Don't be upset if they don't remember who you are, or what Christmas is. Just be there for them, and show them the love and compassion they once showed you. Remember that they did not ask for this disease, and don't even know that they have it now.

Enjoy the time with them, and than don't feel bad that you are able to enjoy it differently with your family. Keep it special for your children, and grandchildren. Explain to them how much fun the holidays were when your parent didn't have the disease and maybe even keep up the old traditions. Life is what you make it.

This is when we celebrate the birth of our Lord. I am so happy for this opportunity, and for the freedom to do this. Merry Christmas!

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
www.mariefostino.com