Friday, July 30, 2010

ALZHEIMER'S BLOGGING:

As I reflect back in time, I remember when I first married my husband. My in laws took me in with welcome arms, so loving and nice to me. My father in law had built an apartment in the basement where we lived the first couple of years of our marriage. I remember as I had each of my babies and how my father in law would help anyway he could.

I also remember my son getting married. My father in law was in jail in his head with Alzheimer's. He couldn't stand still and didn't know who we were, so unfortunately, I had to put him into a nursing home for that weekend. We traveled out of town to my son's wedding and had a good time. But in the back of my mind I was disappointed that my son could not enjoy his wedding with both sets of grandparents.

Time is short, and we only get one chance to live. Be there for each other. Enjoy each other. Until you have lost someone you may not be able to understand how hard it is to not have them around any more. I treasure the time I had with my father in law. I am so glad I got to know him. Now I wait till it is my time to go so I can see him again.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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Thursday, July 29, 2010

ALZHEIMER'S BLOGGING:

To whom ever this concerns:

Your decision to become a Champion in our battle against Alzheimer's disease is deeply appreciated.

Thanks in great part to people like you, we can continue to advance our mission against Alzheimer's through awareness and advocacy, research and enhanced care and support programs.

Now is the time for caring and compassionate individuals like you - who have demonstrated their commitment to our mission to defeat Alzheimer's disease - to engage in activities...raise awareness...donate...and move our cause forward! For example, if you haven't already, you can...

Write Congress now! http://www.kintera.org/siteapps/advocacy/ActionItem.aspx?c=mmKXLbP8E&b=4967861
Alzheimer research is inadequately funded or facing cuts that jeopardize scientific progress. Be the voice of change - tell our elected officials that Alzheimer's disease is a national priority that demands attention now. Your message will help Congress decide on important Alzheimer issues. Demand a plan to fight Alzheimer's!

You're also invited to visit our websites - www.alz.org where you can learn more about Alzheimer's, get up to date news about the disease and find out more about the different resources we offer - and www.actionalz.org to learn what actions you can take to fight Alzheimer's.

Thanks again for being an Alzheimer's Association Champion!

Sincerely,

Angela Geiger
Vice President

Thank you for reading this. Let's help stamp out Alzheimer's.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub Co
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

ALZHEIMER'S BLOGGING:
PLEASE READ BELOW. THIS IS AN E-MAIL THAT WAS SENT TO ME.

Subject: Please read from Matt Huentelman


Hi everyone,

Please pardon the brief interruption.

I wanted to let everyone know that tomorrow I will begin my participation in the Alzheimer’s Breakthrough Ride sponsored by the national Alzheimer’s Association. The Breakthrough Ride is a relay bicycle ride across the entire country with the hope of raising awareness for the disease as well as convincing Congress to consider three Alzheimer’s focused acts that will significantly increase the funding of AD research at the basic science, translational, and clinical trial levels.

I will be riding three legs of the ride. Starting tomorrow I will be heading to Payson, the next day’s destination is Heber, and the final day’s destination is Holbrook. Those of you who may have driven these roads realize that the first two days are going to be pretty long and full of elevation change. I am excited to tackle this challenge and help raise awareness for the need for increased support of Alzheimer’s disease research.

Associated with this ride is a petition that we hope to deliver to Congress on World Alzheimer’s Day [Sept 21]. I would like to request your help in reaching our goal of 50,000 signatures on this petition by that date. Please follow this link at your leisure and add your name to the cause: http://www.alz.org/research/breakthroughride/overview.asp. That page also has lots of additional information about the ride.

Thanks again in advance for the support. Here’s to hoping that efforts like this help to move us one step closer to better management, earlier diagnosis, and smarter treatment of Alzheimer’s disease.

Take care,

Matt

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging

Resveratrol Blocks Alzheimer's Via Sirtuin Protein

There is a very interesting article on www.alzheimersweekly.com I have copied some of it for you to read. Please go on the website and watch the video.

Transcript Extract:

Morley Safer:

The sirtuin gene is normally inactive. But when it is active, Dr. Sinclair believes it triggers a survival mechanism that extends life.

Convinced that something in nature could activate that gene, Sinclair randomly tested thousands of compounds. Bingo! He got a hit - resveratrol.

Dr. Sinclair:

When I Googled this resveratrol, I was shocked to find that red wine was the top hit.


A resveratrol pill may not extend lifespan, but could prevent the diseases of aging.


Morley Safer:

A resveratrol pill may not extend lifespan, but could prevent the diseases of aging - Alzheimer's, diabetes, heart disease - even cancer.

Dr. Sinclair:

What we are talking is activating the body's natural genetic defenses against diseases, and that is very powerful if we can harness that.

Please go to www.alzheimersweekly.com and watch the 60 Minutes episode.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub ., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Sunday, July 25, 2010

ALZHEIMER'S BLOGGING:

Picture this: A 911 call comes out for a person with chest pain. We quickly get into our ambulance and drive out of the parking lot, drive down the street to the stop light. Our light is red, and my partner has the lights, sirens and horn going. At least 20 cars went back and forth in front of us before even one car stopped. Than a few more cars drove in front of us before the cars lined up and stopped to let us through. We make it through the light, driving on the left side of the road to find some cars actually speeding up and going in front of us. Please read what you are suppose to do in case you see an emergency vehicle.


EMERGENCY VEHICLES
You must yield the right-of-way to fire, ambulance, police and other authorized emergency vehicles when they are responding to emergencies. They will display flashing red, or red and white, lights and sound a siren or air-horn. When you hear or see an emergency vehicle approaching your vehicle from any direction, including on your side of an expressway or limited access highway, safely pull over immediately to the right edge of the road and stop. Wait until the emergency vehicle passes before driving on. If you are in an intersection, drive out of it before you pull over.

You must pull over and stop for an emergency vehicle even if it is coming toward you in the opposite lane of a two-way roadway.

If you hear a siren or air-horn nearby but do not know exactly where the emergency vehicle is, you should pull over and stop until you are sure it is not approaching you. An emergency vehicle using lights and a siren or air-horn may be unpredictable. The driver may legally exceed the speed limit, pass red lights and STOP or YIELD signs, go the wrong way on one-way streets and turn in directions not normally allowed. Although emergency vehicle drivers are required to exercise due care, be very cautious when an emergency vehicle approaches.

I hope this helps. This can save a life. Yours and mine!!

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostin.blogspot.com

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:


Memory Walk 2010 starts now.

Memory Walk is the nation's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer care, support and research — and it calls on people of all ages to take action in the fight. Year-round, our participants are leaders in the effort to defeat this devastating disease.

Sign up to walk in your state. Join teams around the nation for MEMORY WALK 2010.

http://www.alz.org/memorywalk/overview.asp?type=homepageflash

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:


Rachel Davis, a cancer survivor, retired web developer, and recently a grandmother, maintains Radiology Degree.com as a nonprofit site in her spare time. She invites your feedback and questions at Info*at*Radiology Degree *.* com. As a nonprofit site designed to serve the public, it is particularly helpful when individuals who are considering becoming a radiologist or entering the broader field of radiology provide questions they have about the field which can be incorporated into the site in future updates.

She asked me to share this with anyone viewing.

“Top 50 Online Resources for Families Coping With Alzheimer’s” ( http://radiologydegree.com/top-50-online-resources-for-families-coping-with-alzheimer%E2%80%99s/ ).

As I viewed her website I found it very interesting. I think you may also. Remember life is short. Enjoy the gift of Life that God has given to and don't put off any love tomorrow that you can give today.

Sincerely,


Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com
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Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

I thought I would talk you today about DNR, which means Do Not Resuscitate.

A DNR is an advance directive which is requesting not to have cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) if your heart stops or you stop breathing. For example: If you have terminal cancer and you decide you don't want to be put on a respirator if you stop breathing. Your loved one will see you stop breathing and call 911. The fire crew and EMS crew will show up and if you have the DNR paper they will not start compressions. Instead they will check for you to make sure their is not pulse and breathing and let the person die in peace.



•EMS WILL suction the airway, administer oxygen, position for comfort, splint or immobilize, control bleeding, provide pain medication, provide emotional support, and contact other appropriate health care providers.

•EMS WILL NOT administer chest compressions, insert an artificial airway, administer resuscitate drugs, defibrillate or cardiovert, provide respiratory assistance (other than suctioning the airway and administering oxygen), initiate resuscitate IV, or initiate cardiac monitoring.

There are different kinds of DNR orders. DNR comfort care - DNR comfort care arrest - DNR specified. Talk to your Physician and find out what is best for you.

The paper at home is orange colored with your signature and Physician's signature and a witness signature. Usually it is kept on the refrigerator so it is easy to spot if you call 911.

DNR orders may be written for patients in a hospital or nursing home, or for patients at home. Hospital DNR orders tell the medical staff not to revive the patient if cardiac arrest occurs. If the patient is in a nursing home or at home, a DNR order tells the staff and emergency medical personnel not to perform emergency resuscitation and not to transfer the patient to a hospital for CPR.

I hope this helps you with the end of Alzheimer's and how to manage. This action helps with peace of mind for you and the one dying and lets the one dying have control over their death.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:


Myths and Facts about Hospice:

Myth: The person who is ill must be close to death in order to be admitted to Hospice Care.
Fact: Persons with an illness, who have a life expectancy of approximately six months or less, are appropriate for Hospice Care. Because hospice provides not only physical care but also addresses emotional and spiritual care, staff can be most helpful to persons who are ill and their families when there is time to assess individual needs and establish a mutual trusting relationship.

Myth: Hospice Care only cares for persons with cancer.
Fact: Hospice Care is appropriate for persons with any life-limiting illness when the primary goal of care is to maintain comfort, manage symptoms and help the individual remain as active as possible.

Myth: Hospice Care patients cannot be hospitalized.
Fact: The majority of persons receiving care from Hospice Care wish to avoid hospitalization as much as possible. Staff are experienced at managing the symptoms and problems that would normally require hospitalization. However, if hospitalization is necessary for the management of symptoms, it can be arranged without discontinuing Hospice Care services. Many patients who experience pain or symptoms that cannot be managed in the home are admitted to a hospital.

Myth: The patient’s personal physician can no longer be involved after admission to a Hospice Care program.
Fact: A patient’s own physician remains the primary physician. Hospice Care works closely with the primary physician to ensure that individuals get the best care possible.

Myth: Hospice Care will “take over.”
Fact: Hospice Care is a team effort. The person receiving the care and his/her family lead the team by defining their individual needs.

Myth: Hospice Care patients cannot receive treatments such as chemotherapy, radiation therapy, blood transfusions.
Fact: Hospice Care accepts persons who are receiving—or may receive—these types of treatments if the patient’s life expectancy remains approximately six months or less and the goal of care is no longer cure.

Myth: Hospice Care provides around-the-clock nursing care.
Fact: Hospice Care provides regular in-home nursing visits and assistance with personal care. There is also 24-hour access to a nurse and a social worker for information, support and problem-solving, either over the phone or by a home visit.

Myth: Hospice Care is limited to a maximum of six months.
Fact: There is no limit to the length of Hospice Care services provided the patient meets the criteria of a life expectancy of approximately six months or less. If a patient’s disease stabilizes and no longer progresses, a patient may be discharged from Hospice Care. The patient may be readmitted if the life expectancy meets the six-month criteria.

Myth: Hospice Care focuses on the acceptance of death.
Fact: Hospice Care recognizes that we all have different and unique goals, beliefs and coping strategies. Hospice Care does not force discussions about the acceptance of death, but staff remain available to discuss any issues important to patients and their families.

Hospice care, provides humane and compassionate care for people in the last phases of an incurable disease so that they may live as fully and comfortably as possible.

I don't know what I would have done with out Hospice. I found out about them accidentally at the hospital when my father in law had pneumonia and I would not listen to the doctors and put him in a nursing home. The support from them was wonderful. The nurse came over once a week and an aid came over on the two days I worked to bath dad. They did at one time tell me that they thought he was doing better and they were going to take him off. But the nurse said she talked her supervisor out of that idea and I was so glad that she had come to know us because it was just a few weeks after that when he died. I know it sounds kinda scary but it is one of the best things you can do as your loved one gets close to the end stage of Alzheimer's.

Remember life is such a gift and family is so important. Treat people, especially your family, the way you want to be treated.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

So today my first call is a 63 yr old female with FAILURE TO THRIVE. Found her lying in bed, her eyes open but not focusing. Called out to her and she could not talk to me. Was told that was normal. I asked her to maybe blink or shake her head if she knew I was talking to her, but she didn't do neither. She had a temp of 101.3 with vomiting and diarrhea. I asked the nurse if they gave her any non aspirin to stop the fever and she said she was going to crush one and put it in her feeding tube but since I showed up they will just let the hospital do it. This pt has a big medical history, dementia, and has been in and out of nursing homes and hospitals for a while now. Plus she gets her nutrition from a feeding tube. I guess my question is what kind of dignity does she have now? Just food for thought.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Monday, July 19, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging, Alzheimer's Blog:

I thought I would talk a little about Hospice Care. Hospice care is the end of life care for families with a family member who is dying, and they want to die at home or in a hospice building with the help of health professionals and volunteers. The goal of Hospice is to give the dying person peace, comfort and dignity to the end of their life. Hospice also helps support the patients family.

I could not have gone through my father in laws death without Hospice Care. A nurse came over once a week to take his vitals, and ask him questions and also to talk to us and help us with any questions we may have had. They told us what to do to prepare for his death, who to call and the medication to give him to keep him from pain.

When my father in law spit his food out at me and stopped responding to me, the nurse came over and let us know his organs were already shutting down, and to respect his wishes. When I questioned them about giving him a feeding tube they told me that I was only prolonging his death. They were right.

I work on an ambulance and I see patients from nursing homes who don't really respond to me but are hanging on to a little life because their families have had feeding tubes put in. I take patients back and forth from nursing home to hospital because the patients continue to pull out their feeding tubes.

What happens when your loved one with Alzheimer’s decides not to eat?
This is a very common problem. The real question is, how aggressive should we be in treating our loved one in the late stage of Alzheimer's. Do we authorize medical treatment for our loved one as their minds go away, yet their bodies live on. Alzheimer's patients can not speak for themselves about their care. Some family members argue that intense treatment in late stages of Alzheimer's is inappropriate, even cruel, and the costs are excessively high. For some family members the cost are not an issue, so when their kidneys fail, they get dialysis, and infections are
treated with intravenous antibiotics. We want guidance and want to be told what is appropriate. There is the unspoken concern that if treatment is stopped, we will be judged by family, friends, and church. We need support groups and counseling about the loss of the ability to eat and drink, and to know that now the loved one has entered into the terminal phase of the illness. We should let our loved ones die peacefully. The Alzheimer's Association guidelines on patients in the final stages of the disease say that it is ethically permissible to with hold feeding tubes and
that spoon feeding should be continued if needed for comfort.

I hope this helps. Remember don't put off any kindness that you can show today.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Alzheimer's Blogging, Alzheimer's Blog



Memory Improved by Visual Brain-Fitness Program
In this study, healthy older participants trained on a computer game designed to boost visual perception. After ten hours of training, they not only improved their perceptual abilities significantly, but also increased the accuracy of their visual working memory by about ten percent - bringing them up to the level of younger adults. The study involved two sets of 15 healthy adults from age 60 to 89. One group participated in the training. The second group served as the control, taking the memory tests but not the visual perception training. No participants had dementia, but the group showed a range of mental fitness typical of an aging population. The average age was 72. To read more please click on www.alzheimersweekly.com and check out Memory Improved by Visual Brain-Fitness Program.

Hope this will be helpful and remember to help yourself please exercise, eat right and read or do something to exercise your brain.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caregivers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

One of the things I learned about Alzheimer's with my father in law, is he didn't want to take baths. I had to get creative to talk him into the bath tub. I would tell him that I just had my bath and that I filled the tub for him, so it was his turn. I would listen and he really didn't get into the bath tub. He would fill the sink full of water and splash the water on his face and then tell me he bathed. So I would make him get into the bathtub with him complaining. "Why didn't you make me take a bath when I was in the war," he would say. Or "Why did you make me kill women and children." His mind would go back into the past and he would blame me for what he went through.

As he would get worse I would finally undress him and put him in the tub. I kept a bath chair sitting in the tub so he didn't have to sit low in the tub. At first this was good and he would wash up. I would leave and give him his privacy but again his mind kept slipping and I would have to put him in the tub and start to bath him, to show him what to do, and than he would finish. Unfortunately towards the end, I was bathing him.

He was good at brushing his teeth and shaving at first. Than I would have to show him how to use the razor and I would take out my tooth brush to show him how to brush. One of the things about this terrible disease is how it melts the brain. How it takes a strong brain and it turns into a weak brain. I hate this disease. Remember that they don't know what you are doing. Have patience with them. And remember you are human and will make mistakes. Learn how to forgive your self.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Friday, July 16, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

As my father in law progressed through the stages of this terrible disease I watched him change. He all of a sudden could not stand still any more. He had to rock back and forth on each foot. When he sat in his favorite chair he would either move his legs up and down or rock himself in his chair. He would not go anywhere without asking permission. He loved to go on car rides and when I brought it up he would be so eager to go. But just as soon as we got to out destination, he immediately wanted to go back home. He constantly forgot what he was doing or where he was going. For example he would tell me he was going to the bathroom but he would walk into his bedroom. The worse thing was not being able to have a conversation with him. He could not understand what we were talking about and would get easily agitated when trying which would develop into him getting upset with us.

It is so hard to see a person who taught you about life, turn into a child. I remember the first time he couldn't make coffee. One morning he put the old coffee and poured it back through the coffee maker with the old coffee grounds. This was something he had done all of his adult life. Soon he forgot how to turn on the TV set and didn't know how to turn on the light switch.

It still breaks my heart today to see how this terrible disease melted his brain. But I have more fond memories, and millions of photos to keep the happy memories alive.

I hope this helps to let you know you are not alone. This is shared by millions of people. Find a good support group. Get respite care. And toward the end get hospice.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

I was thinking back to a few years ago when I was living with my father in law at his home and my oldest daughter came to visit us. She had brought her first born whom was only a couple of months old. Dad wasn't sure how to react with this baby in the house. He sat in his chair and watched us with the baby all the time smiling. So Kristina decided to show dad his grandson and placed the baby in his lap. Dad stayed very still while holding Damien, just smiling. For those few moments Dad seemed like a different person. He was still, like a statue, starring, thinking and smiled. I tried to explain to Dad that Kristina was his grandchild and this child belonged to her making Damien his great grandchild. Dad would smile and nod his head but I'm pretty sure he did not understand me. He finally looked up and pushed his arms forward, trying to let us know that we should take the baby back. It hurt to know that Dad would not get to know his great grandchildren. One of the pictures I have that I treasure is a five generation picture with Dad and his mother, Jimmy (my husband), Kristina and little Damien.

Remember it is the little things that we remember. Life is short so hang on to it and enjoy the gift of life you have been given.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

Remember the ten warning signs of Alzheimer's Disease:
1) Memory Loss
2) Difficulty performing familiar tasks
3) Problems with language
4) Disorientation to time and place
5) Poor or decreased judgment
6) Problems with abstract thinking
7) Misplacing things
8) Changes in mood or behavior
9) Changes personality
10)Loss of initiative

Support groups provide a forum to share feelings, concerns, information and as a way of supporting and encouraging each other. Look for support groups in your area on the Alzheimer's Association Web Site.

Some websites with some great information:
www.alzheimersweekly.com
www.ouralzheimers.com
www.alzheimersassociation.com
www.adear.com
www.alzheimerssociety.com
www.thecaregiversvoice.com
www.alzheimersfoundationofamerica.com

I hope you find this helpful. Remember as a caregiver you also need to take care of yourself. Look for respite care in your area. I used a day care for the elderly. I found that having grandpa Joe visit each day for four hours helped me with my sanity. I needed that time to not worry or stress. My shoulders were clear with no pressure on them for that four hours which helped me enjoy the job I choose for the rest of the evening.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging: Alzheimer's Blog:

Today was a difficult day. A co-worker was studying for her paramedic class this morning when she didn't hear her three year old son running around. She looked around the house for him, could not find him so she called the police. They checked out her home, and the neighborhood before a policeman decided to look in her car. An officer found the child unresponsive in the front seat of the car. The officer began CPR when they called Chandler Fire Fighters. The child was taken to the hospital where the child was pronounced dead. The child's core temperature was 108 degrees. It seemed the child climbed into the vehicle, shut the door and could not get out.

Please keep this 24 yr old mother in your prayers.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com

Monday, July 12, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:

Today was an eventful day. I really enjoyed myself as I spoke at Willowbrooke United Methodist Church. There was not a dry eye when I finished speaking. I do hope I have shed some light on being a caretaker and that they are not alone. If anyone would like me to talk to their support group please contact me. I would love to share anything I can to help make their life easier. Also if you are looking for a support group, ( and it is important to have one) check out Alzheimer's Association. They have the names of support groups all over the United States.

Than I worked out with Richard Simmons, swam for 30 minutes and prayed. Remember that if you have a brother, sister or parent with Alzheimer's you have a good chance to get it. So fight now and exercise to get blood circulated to your brain. Read to keep your brain as sharp as possible. A good diet is very important, but if you suspect that you are doing more than just forgetting, please see a Doctor, get checked out and get on the drugs so that the disease may slow down and you can have a productive life longer.

Check out my u-tube on Grandpa Joe and see how this disease melted his brain.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-dWlsgM9LA

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
http://www.mariefostin.blogspot.com/

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:

Check out Alzheimer's Weekly this week. There are wonderful articles on
research which identified the memory and brain scan tests that appear to predict best whether a person with cognitive problems might develop Alzheimer's disease. Participants were between the ages of 55 and 90 and were followed for an average of 1.9 years. During that time, 28 of the participants developed Alzheimer's disease.

People who showed abnormal results on both PET scans and episodic memory tests were nearly 12 times more likely to develop Alzheimer's disease than those who scored normally on both measures. Please check out the article called TEST COMBO GIVES BEST WARNING.

They also have another article on Self Test Screens for Dementia's such as Alzheimer's. It's a free and simple 15-minute self-administered test to screen for early dementia could help speed diagnosis and treatment of memory disorders, including Alzheimer’s. Please check out this website. www.sagetest.osu.edu

I hope this helps. www.alzheimersweekly.com

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.marefostino.blogspot.com

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Alzheimer's Blog:

Well I am pleased to announce that I have a speaking engagement on Monday, July 12 here in Sunny AZ. I will be at Willow brook United Methodist Church - 19390 N 99th ave in Sun City, AZ. It will be at 10:00 AM in the Chapel.

Remember that we don't pick to have Alzheimer's. It is a brain disorder that destroys brain cells, causing problems with memory, thinking and behavior severe enough to affect work, lifelong hobbies, or social life. Alzheimer's gets worse over time. Just like our bodies, our brains change as we age. An early stage of Alzheimer's disease appears when problems arise with memory, thinking, and concentration. The term early onset refers to Alzheimer's that occurs in a person under the age of 65 yrs old. Experts say that some 500,000 people in their 30's, 40's and 50's have Alzheimer's disease or a related dementia.

The newest Alzheimer's Book out is called Jan's Story Love Lost to the Long Goodbye of Alzheimer's. It is written by Acclaimed CBS News Reporter Barry Peterson. His lovely healthy wife at age 55 has Alzheimer's.

The greatest known risk factor for Alzheimer's is increasing age. But another risk factor is family history. Research has shown those who have had a parent, brother, or sister with Alzheimer's are more likely to develop Alzheimer's.

If you are in the area on Monday, come by and say HI!!

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
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Friday, July 9, 2010

Alzheimer's Blog

You know the saying all good things must come to an end. I was lucky enough to have my daughter Kristina and her three children stay with me for five weeks this summer. Her children ages range 7, 4, & 2. But finally she had to go back home and so we drove 18 hrs yesterday from Phoenix, Az to Oklahoma City, OK. Well you can imagine we had to hear, are we there yet? over and over again. We always stop half way for an hour and find a McDonald's to let the kids eat and run in the play ground. I decided I also needed to stretch my legs and decided to walk around the building a couple of times. That is when I saw them.

I saw an elderly man with a walker getting up from his table with his lovely wife. As I introduced my self to them and started talking to them I found out that he was 87 yrs old and his wife was 83. They had been married for 63 yrs. I asked them what the secret was to stay married that long and they just looked at each other and smiled. Than there daughter interjected they are just in love. They had 6 children, five girls and one boy. Their family grew with 12 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren. They told me that they always had Christmas at their house and everyone showed up. And that all but one person of that family live by each other. I watched them as they smiled and told their story. What an inspiration they are. Isn't that what life is all about .

I just thought it would be nice to hear a nice tale of love for a change.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Alzheimer's Blog:

Denial is a big part of this disease. It is so hard to admit that your loved one maybe venturing into this disease. Losing things once in a while, or forgetting sometimes is normal. So it is easy to see when your loved one forgets a lot one day and the next day he seems to be more normal with his memory.

I am going through this with my parents. My dad is getting very forgetful. He is a lot quieter than I am use to him being and he talks very slow. My mom will call me one day and complain how he can't remember something that should come natural to him. I will encourage her to see a doctor and have him checked. It would be so good to have him put on some medication before he gets to bad. But then a few days later she will call me and forget how forgetful he was telling me he is just fine. I have even sent her an Alzheimer's Test that had found. I gave her 3 of them. One for her to take, one for him and one for a family doctor to help them out. Oh yea, I forgot to tell you we live in different states.

The truth is, denial is a big part of this disease. Until you are willing to get checked or willing to have your loved one get checked than you can start the procedure to maybe slow down the disease process. Remember there is no cure.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
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Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Alzheimer's Blog

Well the good news is on the 4th of July we had an uneventful day. It was way to hot to be sitting out side for 8 hrs trying to keep cool with our long pants on. But the people were playing nice and no one got hurt. And I loved watching the fireworks.

So far today has been eventful. My first call was an 59 yr old gentleman who was just diagnoses with brain Cancer a year ago. His lovely wife said he has been easy to take care of and they had been married now for 35 ys. But today he had an episode of delusion. He was aggressive toward her and ran away. She said this was the second time now since June that he has acted this way and she is frightened of him. We found this patient a few houses away lying face down on the pavement with a couple of policemen around him. Gently I kneeled down and took his hand in mine as I whispered in his ear and coaxed him to get up and get on my gurney and come with me. My heart broke as I listened to his wife and their story. His wife is 53 and I am 55. Count your blessings.

I know that our future is in God's hands. We can do things to take care of our health, but he is in total control. Enjoy the gift of Life and serve others.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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Sunday, July 4, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:

Happy 4th of July. I don't remember my parents really celebrating this holiday when I grew up, but I remember the first time I saw fireworks. I was 19 and married. I remember after that the churches always having a patriotic special going on during our services about our country's freedom and the church decorated in red, white and blue. I made it a habit to bring my children to watching the fireworks from then on. I loved to listen to the patriotic music as the sky blew up in beautiful colors. I still get goosebumps today as I listen to patriotic music and watch fireworks.

I am unfortunately working today, but I am not complaining. It is job security and someone has to be out there for the fools who try to light firecrackers while in their bare hands. I hope I won't have any sad stories to tell you tomorrow. It is hot here in Sunny Phoenix, and we are to be stationed at Tempe Town Lake. This is a college town and will be full of partying people. I do hope they don't drink to much and don't play hard. The only nice part is I will get to see the fire works while I am on duty.

When I was taking care of Joe, I don't remember taking him to see the fireworks. I missed them that year. It was hard to take him out, and someplace full of people roaming around where he could get lost was not a choice. I do remember taking him to see the parade and when ever he saw a soldier he would stand up and salute. I just loved that man.

Memories are a wonderful thing to have. I love going through the memories in my mind of the good times I had with Joe. One thing I can say about my head is I do think more of the good times instead of the bad times. I also keep pictures which I would recommend to people to do. I have albums of pics from my husbands second date till now. When I look through them, the event comes alive in my head again, and I can hear the conversations and almost smell the food.

Remember life is a gift. So enjoy the gift you have been given. Think positive, be polite and show the love that God had given to you.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
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Friday, July 2, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:


Definitions of caregiver which I found on the Web:

Health professional: a person who helps in identifying or preventing or treating illness or disability.

A person who is responsible for attending to the needs of a child or dependent adult

Carer (UK, NZ, Australian usage) and caregiver (US, Canadian usage) are words normally used to refer to unpaid relatives or friends who support people with disabilities. The words may be prefixed with "family" "spousal", "child" to distinguish between different care situations.

A caregiver is anyone providing hands-on personal care and/or assistance with daily care.


A caregiver is any relative, partner, friend or neighbor who has a significant personal relationship with, and provides a broad range of assistance for, an older person or an adult with a chronic or disabling condition.

An adult family member or other individual who is an informal provider of in-home or in community care to an older individual. Caregiver training is sometimes offered by professional agencies to share options and methods for caregivers to use.

A caregiver is a person who has special training to help people with mental health problems, such as social workers, teachers, psychologists, psychiatrists, and mentors. Case manager: An individual who organizes and coordinates services and supports for persons with mental health problems and their families.

Do you stop by your mom's place and drop off food or make her a few meals for the week? Do you balance your father's checkbook because he's been having trouble doing it himself? If you answered "yes," then you are a caregiver. ...

In terms of alcohol and drug abuse recovery a caregiver is a person who has gone through the training necessary to assist a substance abuser through their treatment program. ...

Caregivers - All persons who are not employees of an organization, are not paid, and provide or assist in providing health care to a patient (eg, family member, friend) and acquire technical training as needed based on the tasks that must be performed.

Caregivers - A caregiver is defined as anyone caring for a senior and their family. This can include both formal and informal caregivers.


A caregiver or carer is someone who provides assistance to another person who cannot live fully independently due to physical, psychological, or mental disability. Caregivers may have duties which are fairly light, such as stopping by some one's house every few days to tidy up, or the duties may be more involved, such as living with someone to provide constant assistance with a variety of tasks. Both volunteer and paid caregivers work all over the world.

I hope this helps.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
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Thursday, July 1, 2010

Alzheimer's Blogging:

Falls don't have to be a part of getting older...Your Balance is in your hands.
Check out www.azstopfalls.org
Risk Factors for Falling: Being physically inactive, difficulty with balance, poor muscle strength, taking multiple medications and supplements, hazards in your home and community, & poor vision.

Steps to Avoid Falling:
Physical Activity, eye care, nutrition, health care safe home and safe yard. Have your loved one play with their grand kids or walk a dog. It is important to have annual eye exams or keep glasses in easy reach. Make sure they get a well balanced diet and drink six, 8 ounce glasses of water a day. Make sure they get regular check ups and review their medication.

I hope this helps. I get plenty of elderly on my ambulance with black and blue eyes or arms all bruised up with skin tears from falls.

Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
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