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Please look at this weeks Alzheimer's Weekly. It is full of so much great information such as HealthCare Reform. I get this wonderful weekly news letter and learn so much from it. Here is a copy of what it says about our HealthCare Reform:
Healthcare Reform: 5 Points for Dementias such as Alzheimer's
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Five provisions included in the final Healthcare Reform measure should prove to be of great benefit the growing number of families living with dementias such as Alzheimer's.
Disclaimer: Healthcare Reform continues to be a highly politicized subject and this site aims to be apolitical. This article is not intended to advocate for healthcare reform, but only to inform our readers regarding the features it contains that relate to dementias such as Alzheimer's.
Congress included significant provisions in the final healthcare reform legislation to address the health concerns of a growing population with dementias such as Alzheimer's. Several provisions in the final measure would deliver substantial benefits to those with Alzheimer's and other dementias and to their caregivers.
"Many aspects of the final healthcare reform legislation will greatly serve the Alzheimer community," said Robert Egge, vice president of the Alzheimer's Association's Public Policy and Advocacy Division. "We are particularly pleased with those elements that improve the healthcare delivery system through the promotion of care coordination, transitional care and long-term care services."
Most of the Alzheimer population has one or more other serious medical condition. Coordinated care is critical because so many with Alzheimer's are also managing multiple chronic conditions, like coronary heart disease or diabetes. Cognitive impairment greatly complicates the management of these other conditions, resulting in more hospitalizations, longer hospital stays, and higher costs than for those with these same conditions but not Alzheimer's disease. In fact, Medicare costs are three times higher than for those without Alzheimer's disease, while Medicaid costs are nine times higher.
Elements in the final healthcare reform legislation would begin to address these issues:
THE CLASS ACT: Alzheimer families will be helped by the creation of a national voluntary insurance program, known as The CLASS Act, which provides benefits for long-term care services and support, such as respite care, home care aides and accessible transportation. This new insurance program will help individuals with Alzheimer's disease to remain as independent as possible within their homes and communities for as long as they can and is a great first step in addressing long-term care issues and in assisting families.
THE INNOVATION CENTER: Creating a new demonstration project, known as the Innovation Center, to examine ways to promote care coordination in the Medicare program, including for individuals with Alzheimer's and other dementias. "Care coordination is a process for ensuring effective communication among medical and community care providers and connecting an individual and their family with the services they need," Egge said. "The new Innovation Center will pilot new programs and identify which programs work best for individuals with dementia."
TRANSITIONAL CARE: Establishing a Medicare pilot program to provide transitional care to seniors at a high risk, including those with cognitive impairment, of re-entering a hospital. "Cognitive impairment due to Alzheimer's and other causes increases the complexity of care transitions and post-acute care, resulting in increased risk for medication errors and hospital readmissions," said Egge. "Alzheimer families need assistance with planning and managing discharge and post-acute care, including arranging and monitoring in-home medical treatment and supportive services."
EARLY-ONSET ALZHEIMER'S DISEASE AND OTHER DEMENTIAS IN ADULTS UNDER 65: The legislation takes steps to address individuals with younger-onset Alzheimer's disease - those under the age of 65 - who have a difficult time getting and keeping private health insurance. Currently, almost 29 percent of individuals with younger-onset Alzheimer's disease have no health insurance, causing a great financial burden on their families. The healthcare reform legislation would make health insurance available to those with pre-existing conditions, and there would also be guaranteed issue and renewability. "We are glad to see provisions ensuring that individuals with younger-onset Alzheimer's can more easily obtain, maintain and retain health insurance," said Egge.
THE CURES ACCELERATION NETWORK: Ultimately solving the Alzheimer crisis - with its far reaching impact on families, business, Medicare, Medicaid and the nation as a whole - will require investment in research to develop effective treatments that prevent, stop or cure the disease.While healthcare reform was never designed to address this challenge, it does include an important step called The Cures Acceleration Network. This $500 million research program is aimed at developing treatments and cures for high need diseases, such as Alzheimer's, with an emphasis on bridging the gap between laboratory discoveries and actual treatments.
These various provisions included in the final healthcare reform measure should prove to be of great benefit the growing number of families living with dementias such as Alzheimer's.
Please go on their website www.alzheimersweekly.com They also have a video on National Alzheimer's Strategic Plan and more.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
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Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Monday, March 29, 2010
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Today was an eventful day as I worked on my ambulance. We got called for a women down in her home. When we showed up we found this 83yr old female lying on her tummy on the ground half dressed. She told us she fell last night and was there all night and most of the day. She lives in a senior citizen place with her own apartment, but they do keep records on the elderly living there. She had signed up for an activity and when she didn't show up, they came looking for her. Her face was swollen with bruising on one side of her face. She had bruising on her arms and legs combined with rug burns to her knees and elbows. Her skin on her elbows had skin tears opened with some weeping coming from them. My heart just broke when I saw her. She was a little over weight, and I guess she just could not get back up. She said she was crawling around in the dark and finally gave up.
Please if you have a loved one that is getting up in age, check up on them. I understand they want their independence, but they also want the companionship.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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Today was an eventful day as I worked on my ambulance. We got called for a women down in her home. When we showed up we found this 83yr old female lying on her tummy on the ground half dressed. She told us she fell last night and was there all night and most of the day. She lives in a senior citizen place with her own apartment, but they do keep records on the elderly living there. She had signed up for an activity and when she didn't show up, they came looking for her. Her face was swollen with bruising on one side of her face. She had bruising on her arms and legs combined with rug burns to her knees and elbows. Her skin on her elbows had skin tears opened with some weeping coming from them. My heart just broke when I saw her. She was a little over weight, and I guess she just could not get back up. She said she was crawling around in the dark and finally gave up.
Please if you have a loved one that is getting up in age, check up on them. I understand they want their independence, but they also want the companionship.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Sunday, March 28, 2010
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I love Sundays when I get to be home instead of working. First I love to go to church. I love to start the week by worshiping the Lord. Than of course if any of my children are around I love to have them over for dinner. My husband is the greatest cook ever. My granddaughter loves to spend time with grandma and so we went to the white tanks to water fall trails and after we hiked to see the water fall, which didn't have much water running, we climbed it. The water was so cold that we had to walk through before we found a place to climb up the mountain. But once climbed up there was another pool of water to play in. Than we climbed in the dry water bed part way back to our car.
Next we went back to church to see the play they were having to celebrate Palm Sunday. I go to the First Southern Baptist Church of Avondale and we watched as they had the Southwestern College Chorale sing for us and then as our members of the church put on a play The Last Supper. It is amazing how so many people do not understand what Easter means. God sent his son Jesus to be born here on earth, to die for all of our SINS. In three days Jesus rose again and went to be with his father in heaven.
I thank God for all the blessings he has given to me. I thank him for my health and how I can play with my granddaughter. I thank him for my parents, brother & sisters. I thank him for my husband, and my children. I thank him that I have a job and still keep praying that my husband will find one. Remember to thank God every day. Love your neighbor as you love your self.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
I love Sundays when I get to be home instead of working. First I love to go to church. I love to start the week by worshiping the Lord. Than of course if any of my children are around I love to have them over for dinner. My husband is the greatest cook ever. My granddaughter loves to spend time with grandma and so we went to the white tanks to water fall trails and after we hiked to see the water fall, which didn't have much water running, we climbed it. The water was so cold that we had to walk through before we found a place to climb up the mountain. But once climbed up there was another pool of water to play in. Than we climbed in the dry water bed part way back to our car.
Next we went back to church to see the play they were having to celebrate Palm Sunday. I go to the First Southern Baptist Church of Avondale and we watched as they had the Southwestern College Chorale sing for us and then as our members of the church put on a play The Last Supper. It is amazing how so many people do not understand what Easter means. God sent his son Jesus to be born here on earth, to die for all of our SINS. In three days Jesus rose again and went to be with his father in heaven.
I thank God for all the blessings he has given to me. I thank him for my health and how I can play with my granddaughter. I thank him for my parents, brother & sisters. I thank him for my husband, and my children. I thank him that I have a job and still keep praying that my husband will find one. Remember to thank God every day. Love your neighbor as you love your self.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Saturday, March 27, 2010
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It is such a wonderful day here in sunny Phoenix, while I am riding in my ambulance. I have not been real busy, but I am working. My patients today have been cute elderly women in their 80's and 90's. I love the fact that these patients have their mind in total contact. Like one patient I had who walked on the tread mill for 40 minutes, than played golf. Her husband called us because she almost passed out. mmmm She did say she hasn't had any water or drinking enough fluids, and she has no idea what her husband is talking about. Or the lady from New York who was on a tour in the mountains and passed out twice. You can bet your buttons she was not going to the hospital but her family called because of the love and worry they have for her. Please take care of your self. Drink plenty of fluids, like Gatorade, propelle, and water. Exercise is so important for the body, but also for the mind as your blood supply feeds your brain. Let's try to stay young and healthy as long as we can. I have seen plenty of young 80 and 90 yr olds lately. I want to be just like them.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
It is such a wonderful day here in sunny Phoenix, while I am riding in my ambulance. I have not been real busy, but I am working. My patients today have been cute elderly women in their 80's and 90's. I love the fact that these patients have their mind in total contact. Like one patient I had who walked on the tread mill for 40 minutes, than played golf. Her husband called us because she almost passed out. mmmm She did say she hasn't had any water or drinking enough fluids, and she has no idea what her husband is talking about. Or the lady from New York who was on a tour in the mountains and passed out twice. You can bet your buttons she was not going to the hospital but her family called because of the love and worry they have for her. Please take care of your self. Drink plenty of fluids, like Gatorade, propelle, and water. Exercise is so important for the body, but also for the mind as your blood supply feeds your brain. Let's try to stay young and healthy as long as we can. I have seen plenty of young 80 and 90 yr olds lately. I want to be just like them.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Friday, March 26, 2010
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TWILIGHT: This has a couple of meanings. It means the time when dusk comes to separate afternoon from evening. It is also a title of a book from Stephanie Meyers with a human girl who is in love with a vampire and a werewolf. By the way, I met Stephanie in a In & Out Burger, and she is as beautiful as she is on TV or on line and she is very nice.
Twilight for the Alzheimer's patient is the time when they experience increased confusion. This is the time when you can see such a personality difference, and their confusion increases.
I tried to keep my Father in law on a schedule, when he was taking his bath, having his breakfast, lunch and dinner, and bed time. I was able to keep his schedule pretty good in the morning and the afternoon. But when twilight came, I noticed I had trouble keeping him on a schedule. He seemed to not be able to follow my easy instructions and commands like he did earlier in the day. He seemed lost. It took a lot of effort on my part to try and keep him busy in the evening so that he would not wonder or get into things. I had us put together puzzles, and play cards. But as his Alzheimer's increased so did his confusion.
Remember that life is a gift from God and we have no idea when it will be taken away. So, right now, while you have the chance, tell someone you love him, give someone a kiss and a hug, be an angel and practice random acts of kindness.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
TWILIGHT: This has a couple of meanings. It means the time when dusk comes to separate afternoon from evening. It is also a title of a book from Stephanie Meyers with a human girl who is in love with a vampire and a werewolf. By the way, I met Stephanie in a In & Out Burger, and she is as beautiful as she is on TV or on line and she is very nice.
Twilight for the Alzheimer's patient is the time when they experience increased confusion. This is the time when you can see such a personality difference, and their confusion increases.
I tried to keep my Father in law on a schedule, when he was taking his bath, having his breakfast, lunch and dinner, and bed time. I was able to keep his schedule pretty good in the morning and the afternoon. But when twilight came, I noticed I had trouble keeping him on a schedule. He seemed to not be able to follow my easy instructions and commands like he did earlier in the day. He seemed lost. It took a lot of effort on my part to try and keep him busy in the evening so that he would not wonder or get into things. I had us put together puzzles, and play cards. But as his Alzheimer's increased so did his confusion.
Remember that life is a gift from God and we have no idea when it will be taken away. So, right now, while you have the chance, tell someone you love him, give someone a kiss and a hug, be an angel and practice random acts of kindness.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
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Life is full of learning lessons. We must be open to learn and live. We are given tribulations, blessings, suffering, and we must figure out the difference and learn happiness, patience, and love in order to grow and be a better person.
I sort of knew this most of my life, but when I was taking care of dad, it seemed I was being tested much more severely than in the past.
I raised five children and have been in a marriage for almost 29 yrs. I had to fight to be strong, been so poor that we had to live on pennies to buy milk, been moved away from family and friends great distances. I had known loneliness. I returned to school late in life and discovered I was dyslexic. But no trial had tested me or taught me such lessons as I was taught at that time.
I found myself sometimes short tempered, and aggravated with my situation. Than I felt guilt with myself for the way I was feeling. I found that I could not just pray for patience, happiness, the sparing of pain or pray to make my spirit grow. But I had to pray to God to help me LOVE others as much as he loves us. I hope this helps you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Life is full of learning lessons. We must be open to learn and live. We are given tribulations, blessings, suffering, and we must figure out the difference and learn happiness, patience, and love in order to grow and be a better person.
I sort of knew this most of my life, but when I was taking care of dad, it seemed I was being tested much more severely than in the past.
I raised five children and have been in a marriage for almost 29 yrs. I had to fight to be strong, been so poor that we had to live on pennies to buy milk, been moved away from family and friends great distances. I had known loneliness. I returned to school late in life and discovered I was dyslexic. But no trial had tested me or taught me such lessons as I was taught at that time.
I found myself sometimes short tempered, and aggravated with my situation. Than I felt guilt with myself for the way I was feeling. I found that I could not just pray for patience, happiness, the sparing of pain or pray to make my spirit grow. But I had to pray to God to help me LOVE others as much as he loves us. I hope this helps you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Monday, March 22, 2010
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Today was an eventful day as I took care of my 11 month old grandson. I found a lot of familiarities between him and my father in law as his Alzheimer's was getting worse. My grandson would not let me out of his sight, and would crawl around the floor as I walked around following me. My father in law would not let me out of his sight, keeping his eyes on me, following me as I walked around. And if I got out of his vision he would yell, "Hey Lady, where are you?" As my grandson got tired he would sit and cry with his arms flapping in the air waiting for me to pick him up. I would get his favorite blanket and wrap him up in it and than rock him, in great grandpas favorite chair. When my father in law got tired he would start rocking himself in his favorite chair until he fell asleep. It is amazing how much the end of Alzheimer's is just like your parent becoming an infant all over again.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Today was an eventful day as I took care of my 11 month old grandson. I found a lot of familiarities between him and my father in law as his Alzheimer's was getting worse. My grandson would not let me out of his sight, and would crawl around the floor as I walked around following me. My father in law would not let me out of his sight, keeping his eyes on me, following me as I walked around. And if I got out of his vision he would yell, "Hey Lady, where are you?" As my grandson got tired he would sit and cry with his arms flapping in the air waiting for me to pick him up. I would get his favorite blanket and wrap him up in it and than rock him, in great grandpas favorite chair. When my father in law got tired he would start rocking himself in his favorite chair until he fell asleep. It is amazing how much the end of Alzheimer's is just like your parent becoming an infant all over again.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Sunday, March 21, 2010
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I love receiving the on line issue of Alzheimer's Weekly every Sunday. There is so much valuable information in that on line magazine. This week I noticed that they are having an Alzheimer's Clinical Study. It is a clinical study to evaluate the safety and effectiveness of an investigational drug for Alzheimer's disease in men and women with mild to moderate Alzheimer's Disease. The subject must be at least 50 yrs old, diagnosed with probably Alzheimer's disease or believes they have Alzheimer's disease. The subject must have an appropriate caregiver who can accompany him/her on clinical visits. This study can last up to 14 months with 14 meetings and 3 phone calls with study health professionals. Study related visits, medical evaluations, and investigational drug will be provided to study participants at no cost. Researchers are working hard to understand Alzheimer's disease and determine the best strategy to treat this difficult disease.
If you have a loved one with this disease, you may want to check out this clinical study. Check out www.alzheimersweekly.com . This study is also on www.studyforalz.com .
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
I love receiving the on line issue of Alzheimer's Weekly every Sunday. There is so much valuable information in that on line magazine. This week I noticed that they are having an Alzheimer's Clinical Study. It is a clinical study to evaluate the safety and effectiveness of an investigational drug for Alzheimer's disease in men and women with mild to moderate Alzheimer's Disease. The subject must be at least 50 yrs old, diagnosed with probably Alzheimer's disease or believes they have Alzheimer's disease. The subject must have an appropriate caregiver who can accompany him/her on clinical visits. This study can last up to 14 months with 14 meetings and 3 phone calls with study health professionals. Study related visits, medical evaluations, and investigational drug will be provided to study participants at no cost. Researchers are working hard to understand Alzheimer's disease and determine the best strategy to treat this difficult disease.
If you have a loved one with this disease, you may want to check out this clinical study. Check out www.alzheimersweekly.com . This study is also on www.studyforalz.com .
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Saturday, March 20, 2010
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Today on my ambulance has been a very uneventful day. I am not complaining. I had a call for a 70 yr old female with vertigo, combined with diarrhea and vomiting. I had a call for a 73 yr old female who felt faint at a cowboy event so she laid on the ground and called 911. She did great. Got a call for a medical alarm system that was faulty. I love the fact that my patients have been elderly and intact. As we were driving down the road, I saw two people sitting by a park bench. One was maybe in her 40's sitting on the bench and the other was in her 70's sitting in her wheelchair. That made my heart jump to see someone taking the time to take their parent outside and enjoy this beautiful weather. In the midst of old age combined with Dementia, and Alzheimer's it feels great to see the ones who are lucky enough to have their minds and bodies working correctly.
Remember that today is a gift. Tell someone you love them. Show an act of kindness. Give a kiss and a hug. Do not take this gift for granted.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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www.mariefostino.com
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Today on my ambulance has been a very uneventful day. I am not complaining. I had a call for a 70 yr old female with vertigo, combined with diarrhea and vomiting. I had a call for a 73 yr old female who felt faint at a cowboy event so she laid on the ground and called 911. She did great. Got a call for a medical alarm system that was faulty. I love the fact that my patients have been elderly and intact. As we were driving down the road, I saw two people sitting by a park bench. One was maybe in her 40's sitting on the bench and the other was in her 70's sitting in her wheelchair. That made my heart jump to see someone taking the time to take their parent outside and enjoy this beautiful weather. In the midst of old age combined with Dementia, and Alzheimer's it feels great to see the ones who are lucky enough to have their minds and bodies working correctly.
Remember that today is a gift. Tell someone you love them. Show an act of kindness. Give a kiss and a hug. Do not take this gift for granted.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Thursday, March 18, 2010
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Sometimes it is hard to think what to blog about. I see people every day on my ambulance, or when I am with my family. It hurts my hurt when I see an elderly person with so much confusion, knowing that they probably have dementia, or Alzheimer's. I try to imagine them at one time before their mind was taken from them. Many nursing homes have pictures on their doors or in their rooms showing them younger, with a spouse and with their children and grandchildren. I love to imagine how happy they were before this terrible disease took over their minds. Yet my heart jumps for joy when I see an elder couple walking down the sidewalk together or eating in a restaurant together. Trying not to eavesdrop, but able to hear a conversation that is normal.
I thank God for my health. I don't know how long I have before I will be gone whether it be to a disease or to death, but I am so thankful for the days I have now. Count your blessings. Enjoy each other while your mind is still working. Be polite to each other, just like how we seem to be polite to strangers. Make sure you tell your family everyday that you love them. Jimmy, Kristina, Jennifer, Erik, Jessica and Regina, I love you all very much. Love Mom
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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Sometimes it is hard to think what to blog about. I see people every day on my ambulance, or when I am with my family. It hurts my hurt when I see an elderly person with so much confusion, knowing that they probably have dementia, or Alzheimer's. I try to imagine them at one time before their mind was taken from them. Many nursing homes have pictures on their doors or in their rooms showing them younger, with a spouse and with their children and grandchildren. I love to imagine how happy they were before this terrible disease took over their minds. Yet my heart jumps for joy when I see an elder couple walking down the sidewalk together or eating in a restaurant together. Trying not to eavesdrop, but able to hear a conversation that is normal.
I thank God for my health. I don't know how long I have before I will be gone whether it be to a disease or to death, but I am so thankful for the days I have now. Count your blessings. Enjoy each other while your mind is still working. Be polite to each other, just like how we seem to be polite to strangers. Make sure you tell your family everyday that you love them. Jimmy, Kristina, Jennifer, Erik, Jessica and Regina, I love you all very much. Love Mom
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
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www.mariefostino.com
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010
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Do you ever stop and count your blessings? In my little world, my husband has not had a job for 15 months and I am trying to keep up the bills with my little job. I have written two young adult manuscripts and I can not find an agent to even read them and give them a chance.
Yet today I got to spend the day with my 14 yr old granddaughter, taking the light rail in Phoenix, to Tempe and got a bite to eat. I am 55 yrs old, and thank God that I still have my health. I have 5 children and 6 grandchildren, and spend time with them when ever possible.
I know that it is hard for you as you are dealing with your loved one with Alzheimer's. I have been there. I can remember like it was yesterday as we tried to give dad as normal life as possible. Count your blessings. You are lucky enough to be able to give this love to their end of days. You are lucky enough to give back. May God Bless You!
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
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Do you ever stop and count your blessings? In my little world, my husband has not had a job for 15 months and I am trying to keep up the bills with my little job. I have written two young adult manuscripts and I can not find an agent to even read them and give them a chance.
Yet today I got to spend the day with my 14 yr old granddaughter, taking the light rail in Phoenix, to Tempe and got a bite to eat. I am 55 yrs old, and thank God that I still have my health. I have 5 children and 6 grandchildren, and spend time with them when ever possible.
I know that it is hard for you as you are dealing with your loved one with Alzheimer's. I have been there. I can remember like it was yesterday as we tried to give dad as normal life as possible. Count your blessings. You are lucky enough to be able to give this love to their end of days. You are lucky enough to give back. May God Bless You!
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
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Tuesday, March 16, 2010
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SAD THINGS ABOUT ALZHEIMER'S
Sitting in a chair confused
Says Hi to you each time he sees you, like it is the first time
He asks forever to go home, even in his own home
He can no longer do simple things
He doesn't know the days of the week
He gets AM and PM mixed up
He repeats the same thing over and over again
He doesn't recognize relatives
These are just some of the things your loved one with Alzheimer's will experience and the confusion & aggravation that you will experience. Try to have patience. Remember that at one time they were not like this, they were like you. It is not their fault that their mind was taken away from them. Please help stamp out Alzheimer's. Check out Alzheimer's Association for their fund raisers to help find a cure.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostion.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
SAD THINGS ABOUT ALZHEIMER'S
Sitting in a chair confused
Says Hi to you each time he sees you, like it is the first time
He asks forever to go home, even in his own home
He can no longer do simple things
He doesn't know the days of the week
He gets AM and PM mixed up
He repeats the same thing over and over again
He doesn't recognize relatives
These are just some of the things your loved one with Alzheimer's will experience and the confusion & aggravation that you will experience. Try to have patience. Remember that at one time they were not like this, they were like you. It is not their fault that their mind was taken away from them. Please help stamp out Alzheimer's. Check out Alzheimer's Association for their fund raisers to help find a cure.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostion.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Sunday, March 14, 2010
ALZHEIMER'S BLOG:
I keep doing research and reading how this terrible disease, Alzheimer's, is spreading in our country. It is very interesting this morning as I was reading Alzheimer's Weekly, about the 2010 Alzheimer's Disease Facts & Figures Report. It stated that Alzheimer's is the leading cause of death in 2006. But now with a rapidly number of aging population, increases the number of Alzheimer's Causes. The death rate has declined for most major disease: The death rates from 2000 - 2006 are: heart disease -11.1% -- breast cancer -2.6% -- prostate cancer -8.7% -- stroke -18.2% -- HIV/Aids -16.3% -- while Alzheimer's rose 41.6%. Plus people with dementia and Alzheimer's are high users of hospitals, nursing homes and long term care centers, which equal high costs for all involved. Alzheimer's Disease often progresses in a slow unrelenting pace putting the family in a emotional, physical, and financial roller coaster. Look up this article on www.alzheimersweekly.com under 2010 Alzheimer's Disease Facts & Figures Report.
Please if you have a loved one with Alzheimer's please get a good support group. If you don't know where to look check on www.alzheimersassociation.com . They actually have a map of the US and you can pick the state where you live, then check out the cities to find a support group in your area. Also it is important to get a good respite care. If you don't take a break and take care of yourself, how can you care for your loved one.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
I keep doing research and reading how this terrible disease, Alzheimer's, is spreading in our country. It is very interesting this morning as I was reading Alzheimer's Weekly, about the 2010 Alzheimer's Disease Facts & Figures Report. It stated that Alzheimer's is the leading cause of death in 2006. But now with a rapidly number of aging population, increases the number of Alzheimer's Causes. The death rate has declined for most major disease: The death rates from 2000 - 2006 are: heart disease -11.1% -- breast cancer -2.6% -- prostate cancer -8.7% -- stroke -18.2% -- HIV/Aids -16.3% -- while Alzheimer's rose 41.6%. Plus people with dementia and Alzheimer's are high users of hospitals, nursing homes and long term care centers, which equal high costs for all involved. Alzheimer's Disease often progresses in a slow unrelenting pace putting the family in a emotional, physical, and financial roller coaster. Look up this article on www.alzheimersweekly.com under 2010 Alzheimer's Disease Facts & Figures Report.
Please if you have a loved one with Alzheimer's please get a good support group. If you don't know where to look check on www.alzheimersassociation.com . They actually have a map of the US and you can pick the state where you live, then check out the cities to find a support group in your area. Also it is important to get a good respite care. If you don't take a break and take care of yourself, how can you care for your loved one.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Alzheimer's Blogging:
Taking care of my father in law was an adventure. We had been there for a couple of months now, living in his home taking care of him. One week started out with my father in law demanding to know why he was in jail. I had asked him why he would think that, and he replied that he must have done something wrong. He apologized to me and said he had to go and find his people. The next day when I got off of work that morning I brought dad to the Adult Day Care Center. He was real upset with me during the ride. "Hey lady," he said, "you are going to be real upset with yourself! Wherever you are taking me, a cripple...well, what are the people going to think of you?" Of course I tried to explain to him where we were going, but he didn't understand. Anyway I dropped him off and went home for some sleep. I picked him up four hours later and the Dad had a big smile on his face. "So you must be Lady?" the aids said. It seemed that Dad was worried about me and wondered why I wasn't with him. He didn't remember my name, and Lady was the name he had chosen for me. Even though he would get upset with me, he seemed to know that I was taking care of him. As the week went along, he would say things like, he was not right, something was wrong. I hated to hear those words. Usually after that he would tell me to take him home. Taking care of a loved one with Alzheimer's is an adventure. But one that I would not have given up. I am so glad that I got to go on the ride. Life is short, so don't wait till tomorrow, be kind today.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
http://www.mariefostin.blogspot.com/
Taking care of my father in law was an adventure. We had been there for a couple of months now, living in his home taking care of him. One week started out with my father in law demanding to know why he was in jail. I had asked him why he would think that, and he replied that he must have done something wrong. He apologized to me and said he had to go and find his people. The next day when I got off of work that morning I brought dad to the Adult Day Care Center. He was real upset with me during the ride. "Hey lady," he said, "you are going to be real upset with yourself! Wherever you are taking me, a cripple...well, what are the people going to think of you?" Of course I tried to explain to him where we were going, but he didn't understand. Anyway I dropped him off and went home for some sleep. I picked him up four hours later and the Dad had a big smile on his face. "So you must be Lady?" the aids said. It seemed that Dad was worried about me and wondered why I wasn't with him. He didn't remember my name, and Lady was the name he had chosen for me. Even though he would get upset with me, he seemed to know that I was taking care of him. As the week went along, he would say things like, he was not right, something was wrong. I hated to hear those words. Usually after that he would tell me to take him home. Taking care of a loved one with Alzheimer's is an adventure. But one that I would not have given up. I am so glad that I got to go on the ride. Life is short, so don't wait till tomorrow, be kind today.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
http://www.mariefostin.blogspot.com/
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Alzheimer's Blogging:
One of the things about Alzheimer's patients is how their mind forgets. After I moved in with my father in law, I took it upon myself to try to make him as normal life as possible. We had to watch as his memory was getting lost more and more each day. At first he was able to do the little things that we take for granted, but as time went on he forgot how to do them. He would tell me that he had never done them before. So in the morning I would fill his bathtub with water, and place a clean washcloth and a bar of soap there. I would take out any bottles of shampoo and creme rinse so that he would not mistaken them for his soap. After he took off his clothes and jumped into the tub, I would take his dirty clothes out and place in a clean towel. When he got out of the tub, I would help dry him off and give him his clean underwear. Next I would put tooth paste on his tooth brush and he would brush his teeth. Then I would put shaving creme on his face and he would shave. I would lead him to his bedroom and have his clean pants and shirt on his bed. Sometimes he would get them mixed up and try to put the shirt on his legs. He seemed to always have trouble putting on his socks. I know this seems like a lot of work, but to me it was just life. He tried to take care of himself as much as possible and my goal was to try and keep his mind as long as I could. Just remember that to this world you are but one person, but to this one person you are their world.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
One of the things about Alzheimer's patients is how their mind forgets. After I moved in with my father in law, I took it upon myself to try to make him as normal life as possible. We had to watch as his memory was getting lost more and more each day. At first he was able to do the little things that we take for granted, but as time went on he forgot how to do them. He would tell me that he had never done them before. So in the morning I would fill his bathtub with water, and place a clean washcloth and a bar of soap there. I would take out any bottles of shampoo and creme rinse so that he would not mistaken them for his soap. After he took off his clothes and jumped into the tub, I would take his dirty clothes out and place in a clean towel. When he got out of the tub, I would help dry him off and give him his clean underwear. Next I would put tooth paste on his tooth brush and he would brush his teeth. Then I would put shaving creme on his face and he would shave. I would lead him to his bedroom and have his clean pants and shirt on his bed. Sometimes he would get them mixed up and try to put the shirt on his legs. He seemed to always have trouble putting on his socks. I know this seems like a lot of work, but to me it was just life. He tried to take care of himself as much as possible and my goal was to try and keep his mind as long as I could. Just remember that to this world you are but one person, but to this one person you are their world.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
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I had wrote this on Tuesday, March 9 but somehow I found this on a different site, and not on mine so I am re-writing this:
Today while I was working we had to stop for some lunch. After getting our food to go, we found a seat and hoped we would get to eat before we got another call. Sitting there in front of the seating area were two people sitting next to each other, instead of across from each other, eating their lunch. They were talking, and smiling, and when they were finished, the man took the tray off the table and emptied it for the two of them. Then he waited at the door for his wife and opened it for her so they could leave. So you say, why am I making such a big deal out of this. I could not help but smile, and my heart jumped as I watched them. They both had grey hair and must be at least 80 yrs old. Isn't that the way it is suppose to be? Is that not what we all want, but to grow old with our sweetheart, and enjoy the golden years. I guess I am writing this because even though some of us have heartache with our loved ones with Dementia and Alzheimer's, there are some fortunate enough to still enjoy each others company. To them I applaud.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
I had wrote this on Tuesday, March 9 but somehow I found this on a different site, and not on mine so I am re-writing this:
Today while I was working we had to stop for some lunch. After getting our food to go, we found a seat and hoped we would get to eat before we got another call. Sitting there in front of the seating area were two people sitting next to each other, instead of across from each other, eating their lunch. They were talking, and smiling, and when they were finished, the man took the tray off the table and emptied it for the two of them. Then he waited at the door for his wife and opened it for her so they could leave. So you say, why am I making such a big deal out of this. I could not help but smile, and my heart jumped as I watched them. They both had grey hair and must be at least 80 yrs old. Isn't that the way it is suppose to be? Is that not what we all want, but to grow old with our sweetheart, and enjoy the golden years. I guess I am writing this because even though some of us have heartache with our loved ones with Dementia and Alzheimer's, there are some fortunate enough to still enjoy each others company. To them I applaud.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Monday, March 8, 2010
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As I sit and talk to my grandchild asking her where her nose is or where her mouth is I can't help but think about my father in law. I remember sitting with dad after I first moved in and asking him questions. He could tell me his name, birthday, and his children's names. Yet he did not know that we were living in his own home. Alzheimer's is such a terrible disease the way it takes away their mind leaving them lost. I had made him and my mother in law a photo album a few years before she died. So dad and I looked into it, and he was picking out some of pictures of people that he recognized. Every time he saw a picture of his wife, he would ask where she was. I would tell him that she passed away and he would ask if they were happy. I would reassure him that they were happy and spent many years in that house. I would try to do what ever I could to try and help him remember but it didn't work. This is one of the things I hate about this disease. Take each day like it is your last and make it count. Practice Random Acts of Kindness.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
As I sit and talk to my grandchild asking her where her nose is or where her mouth is I can't help but think about my father in law. I remember sitting with dad after I first moved in and asking him questions. He could tell me his name, birthday, and his children's names. Yet he did not know that we were living in his own home. Alzheimer's is such a terrible disease the way it takes away their mind leaving them lost. I had made him and my mother in law a photo album a few years before she died. So dad and I looked into it, and he was picking out some of pictures of people that he recognized. Every time he saw a picture of his wife, he would ask where she was. I would tell him that she passed away and he would ask if they were happy. I would reassure him that they were happy and spent many years in that house. I would try to do what ever I could to try and help him remember but it didn't work. This is one of the things I hate about this disease. Take each day like it is your last and make it count. Practice Random Acts of Kindness.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Sunday, March 7, 2010
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Check out www.alzheimersweekly.com this week. They are offering a free booklet on understanding Alzheimer's. Would you prefer a booklet over a website? Do you know the signs of Alzheimer's? Or do you know why it is important to see a doctor early? Do you know what kind of treatment you can get for this disease? Do you know how to get help while caring for someone with this disease? There is a free book from the National Institute of Aging, called Understanding Alzheimer's Disease.
I would suggest to get all the information that you can if you are dealing at home with a loved one with this disease. It is also important to get a good support group. Check out www.alzheimersassociation.com to find a support group in your area.
It is important to have someone to vent to. Like everything else in life there is good and bad with every circumstance. And if you don't talk and let it out the frustration will build up it will make for an ugly situation. I find that once I have a vent and let it out I am a happier person. Plus I forget what I was frustrated about and can start the day new again. So please find a good support group and find someone who will just let you vent.
It was very rewarding to take care of my father in law. I feel honored that I got the chance to give him as much as a normal life possible and I am glad I was at his side when he finally went to see the LORD. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Check out www.alzheimersweekly.com this week. They are offering a free booklet on understanding Alzheimer's. Would you prefer a booklet over a website? Do you know the signs of Alzheimer's? Or do you know why it is important to see a doctor early? Do you know what kind of treatment you can get for this disease? Do you know how to get help while caring for someone with this disease? There is a free book from the National Institute of Aging, called Understanding Alzheimer's Disease.
I would suggest to get all the information that you can if you are dealing at home with a loved one with this disease. It is also important to get a good support group. Check out www.alzheimersassociation.com to find a support group in your area.
It is important to have someone to vent to. Like everything else in life there is good and bad with every circumstance. And if you don't talk and let it out the frustration will build up it will make for an ugly situation. I find that once I have a vent and let it out I am a happier person. Plus I forget what I was frustrated about and can start the day new again. So please find a good support group and find someone who will just let you vent.
It was very rewarding to take care of my father in law. I feel honored that I got the chance to give him as much as a normal life possible and I am glad I was at his side when he finally went to see the LORD. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Saturday, March 6, 2010
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We have learned that Alzheimer's Disease is caused by nerve cell damage. Our brain is nourished by blood vessels. With each heartbeat arteries carry blood to your brain. I know you have heard of this before.
I woke up and did my routine of exercising with Richard Simmons. I know a lot of you are laughing at me right now. But think about this. This man has helped a lot of people with their weight, with dancing. So you don't know that you are really exercising. I have fond memories of going dancing with my father in law in lounges. He always loved to dance. As his disease got worse, I had to stop taking him dancing so I let him dance with me and Richard. giggle He was so cute as he would do his own steps instead of what we were being told to do. Anyone who wants to visit his website www.richardsimmons.com
Today I exercised to Sweatin to the Oldies 2. Music is from the 60's for instant do you remember 1) The Loco-Motion 2)Fever 3) My Boyfriends Back 4) Breaking Up Is Hard To Do 5) Windy 6) Big Girls Don't Cry 7) Jailhouse Rock 8) Summer In The City 9) Respect
10) Rescue Me 11) Oh Pretty Woman.
I grew up with these songs, so dancing to these bring up wonderful memories when I was young and full of energy. Remember that keeping your mind busy will help along with exercise to keep your mind young.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
We have learned that Alzheimer's Disease is caused by nerve cell damage. Our brain is nourished by blood vessels. With each heartbeat arteries carry blood to your brain. I know you have heard of this before.
I woke up and did my routine of exercising with Richard Simmons. I know a lot of you are laughing at me right now. But think about this. This man has helped a lot of people with their weight, with dancing. So you don't know that you are really exercising. I have fond memories of going dancing with my father in law in lounges. He always loved to dance. As his disease got worse, I had to stop taking him dancing so I let him dance with me and Richard. giggle He was so cute as he would do his own steps instead of what we were being told to do. Anyone who wants to visit his website www.richardsimmons.com
Today I exercised to Sweatin to the Oldies 2. Music is from the 60's for instant do you remember 1) The Loco-Motion 2)Fever 3) My Boyfriends Back 4) Breaking Up Is Hard To Do 5) Windy 6) Big Girls Don't Cry 7) Jailhouse Rock 8) Summer In The City 9) Respect
10) Rescue Me 11) Oh Pretty Woman.
I grew up with these songs, so dancing to these bring up wonderful memories when I was young and full of energy. Remember that keeping your mind busy will help along with exercise to keep your mind young.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Friday, March 5, 2010
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Memories are all I have left of my father in law. I remember when I use to make him bath he would fight me and his words to me were "If I can fight in two wars, who are you to make me take a bath. Why didn't you make me take a bath in WW11." I use to let dad bath himself, but one day he locked the door of the bathroom, and could not get out. So I had to keep tape on the door so it would not lock. I would peek inside to see he wasn't bathing, and I had to get creative on how to get him to bath. I did have a bath chair in the tub for him. I already had the water in the tub. Yet he would not get in. I finally had to make him pass his clothes out to me, and keep a clean towel in there for him. After he bathed and dried up, I put his clean underwear in the bathroom for him. Later as the disease progressed, I was in the bathroom with him.
The weather today in sunny Arizona is beautiful. I took my youngest grandchild on a walk and let him fall asleep in the stroller. But my mind went to a different time, when I was living in Chicago, and my father in law would have me put a chair on the front porch. He would sit there and stare across the street. Then he would get up and walk to the end of the driveway and check the mailbox. Next it was time to walk back up to the porch and sit on his chair. This was something he did over and over again every day, weather permitting.
Memory loss is one of the biggest parts of Alzheimer's. Dad could not remember if he did take a bath or that he really needed one. And on those days in the front yard, he would make that trip to the mail box, I bet 50 times a day. He couldn't remember that he had already done that. Even if he did get the mail, he would start all over again.
Remember life is an adventure and we need to take it, enjoy it, learn from it, and to take care of each other. That is what life is all about.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Memories are all I have left of my father in law. I remember when I use to make him bath he would fight me and his words to me were "If I can fight in two wars, who are you to make me take a bath. Why didn't you make me take a bath in WW11." I use to let dad bath himself, but one day he locked the door of the bathroom, and could not get out. So I had to keep tape on the door so it would not lock. I would peek inside to see he wasn't bathing, and I had to get creative on how to get him to bath. I did have a bath chair in the tub for him. I already had the water in the tub. Yet he would not get in. I finally had to make him pass his clothes out to me, and keep a clean towel in there for him. After he bathed and dried up, I put his clean underwear in the bathroom for him. Later as the disease progressed, I was in the bathroom with him.
The weather today in sunny Arizona is beautiful. I took my youngest grandchild on a walk and let him fall asleep in the stroller. But my mind went to a different time, when I was living in Chicago, and my father in law would have me put a chair on the front porch. He would sit there and stare across the street. Then he would get up and walk to the end of the driveway and check the mailbox. Next it was time to walk back up to the porch and sit on his chair. This was something he did over and over again every day, weather permitting.
Memory loss is one of the biggest parts of Alzheimer's. Dad could not remember if he did take a bath or that he really needed one. And on those days in the front yard, he would make that trip to the mail box, I bet 50 times a day. He couldn't remember that he had already done that. Even if he did get the mail, he would start all over again.
Remember life is an adventure and we need to take it, enjoy it, learn from it, and to take care of each other. That is what life is all about.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Thursday, March 4, 2010
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Alzheimer's Disease: A progressive form of presenile dementia that is similar to senile dementia except that it usually starts in the 40's or 50's.
Degenerative: Age related disease that impairs an individuals cognitive ability. Symptoms may include forgetfulness, wondering, & inability.
Alzheimer's: A degenerative brain disorder characterized by premature senility and dementia.
THESE ARE THE DEFINITIONS OF ALZHEIMER'S ON THE WEB.
I hate this disease. My father in law once talked to me, asking me who to talk to about quitting his job and how much pension will he make. I told him I had a job. He said great! But in a little while he wanted to talk to me again. He asked me the same question again so I tried to humor him and let him know every thing was all right.
We had a busy day, and went out to lunch with his two sister in laws. Yet later that day he asked me, how work was today. I reminded him that we went out to lunch with Aunty Ann and Aunt Yulanda. He had a strange look on his face and finally asked me if he had a good time. Then he told me he was lost and couldn't remember anything about the day. He asked me to call the ladies, so I did, and it hurt me as I watched him cry as he got details of their visit.
The terrible thing about this disease is they can't remember who they were with, or where they were. Even if it was just a couple hours earlier that day. Much of the time they are in another world. I loved him so much and I hated to see him so upset.
Remember life is short so don't put off any love tomorrow that you can show today.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Alzheimer's Disease: A progressive form of presenile dementia that is similar to senile dementia except that it usually starts in the 40's or 50's.
Degenerative: Age related disease that impairs an individuals cognitive ability. Symptoms may include forgetfulness, wondering, & inability.
Alzheimer's: A degenerative brain disorder characterized by premature senility and dementia.
THESE ARE THE DEFINITIONS OF ALZHEIMER'S ON THE WEB.
I hate this disease. My father in law once talked to me, asking me who to talk to about quitting his job and how much pension will he make. I told him I had a job. He said great! But in a little while he wanted to talk to me again. He asked me the same question again so I tried to humor him and let him know every thing was all right.
We had a busy day, and went out to lunch with his two sister in laws. Yet later that day he asked me, how work was today. I reminded him that we went out to lunch with Aunty Ann and Aunt Yulanda. He had a strange look on his face and finally asked me if he had a good time. Then he told me he was lost and couldn't remember anything about the day. He asked me to call the ladies, so I did, and it hurt me as I watched him cry as he got details of their visit.
The terrible thing about this disease is they can't remember who they were with, or where they were. Even if it was just a couple hours earlier that day. Much of the time they are in another world. I loved him so much and I hated to see him so upset.
Remember life is short so don't put off any love tomorrow that you can show today.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.mariefostino.blogspot.com
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
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It hurt my heart today as I came on scene for a 80 yr old female who was lying on the floor because she fell. She had a big contusion to her face by her eye, and skin tears on her arms and legs. She has cataracts so she does have some trouble seeing. I felt so bad that she was alone. She lives by herself but she did hit her medical alarm. She doesn't have Alzheimer's but I do think that at that age they need to be living with a relative just for safety reasons. What do you think?
I believe that we are here to be servants for the Lord. I am lucky because I am a public servant as I do run in an ambulance to help people. I believe that we are to help others willingly. I love my Alzheimer's patients. I miss my father in law. But I thank God that I was able to take care of him while he had his Alzheimer's. I just want to thank all of you who are taking on the challenge of helping your loved one with Alzheimer's. Remember you are not alone. Get a good support group and respite care. I hope my book can help you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Import Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
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It hurt my heart today as I came on scene for a 80 yr old female who was lying on the floor because she fell. She had a big contusion to her face by her eye, and skin tears on her arms and legs. She has cataracts so she does have some trouble seeing. I felt so bad that she was alone. She lives by herself but she did hit her medical alarm. She doesn't have Alzheimer's but I do think that at that age they need to be living with a relative just for safety reasons. What do you think?
I believe that we are here to be servants for the Lord. I am lucky because I am a public servant as I do run in an ambulance to help people. I believe that we are to help others willingly. I love my Alzheimer's patients. I miss my father in law. But I thank God that I was able to take care of him while he had his Alzheimer's. I just want to thank all of you who are taking on the challenge of helping your loved one with Alzheimer's. Remember you are not alone. Get a good support group and respite care. I hope my book can help you.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Import Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
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Tuesday, March 2, 2010
ALZHEIMER'S BLOGGING:
Life was very interesting after we moved in with my father in law. On night I heard dad roaming around and got up to see what he was doing. We had not lived there very long and I was not sure how far he was in his Alzheimer's yet. It was 12:30 am when I saw him walking down the hall. I asked him what he was doing but he didn't answer me right away. I brought him back to his bedroom and opened his bedroom door and found he had his clothes, cards, razor, and other belongings packed up in boxes that he happened to find in his room. Also he took a pair of slacks and tied up the legs at the cuffs. He then filled them full of his stuff. He told me he was packing because it was time to go home because no one was watching his house. I cleared off his bed, took off his shoes and socks and put him back to bed. He promptly fell asleep. In the morning when he woke up I asked him what he was doing last night and he had no idea. He said he must have been just going through his stuff and was sorry if he made a mess. Remember life is a gift and we need to make the best out of it. Every moment is special, it may be our last, so let it count.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.blogspot.com
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Life was very interesting after we moved in with my father in law. On night I heard dad roaming around and got up to see what he was doing. We had not lived there very long and I was not sure how far he was in his Alzheimer's yet. It was 12:30 am when I saw him walking down the hall. I asked him what he was doing but he didn't answer me right away. I brought him back to his bedroom and opened his bedroom door and found he had his clothes, cards, razor, and other belongings packed up in boxes that he happened to find in his room. Also he took a pair of slacks and tied up the legs at the cuffs. He then filled them full of his stuff. He told me he was packing because it was time to go home because no one was watching his house. I cleared off his bed, took off his shoes and socks and put him back to bed. He promptly fell asleep. In the morning when he woke up I asked him what he was doing last night and he had no idea. He said he must have been just going through his stuff and was sorry if he made a mess. Remember life is a gift and we need to make the best out of it. Every moment is special, it may be our last, so let it count.
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
www.mariefostino.com
www.blogspot.com
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Monday, March 1, 2010
ALZHEIMER'S BLOG:
How has this disease changed you?
Have you looked at Alzheimer's Weekly this week. There is an article called 'Days with my Father'. This article is written by Phillip Toledano. He writes about how there was a sudden death of his mother which ended up with him being the sole caretaker of his father. http://www.alzheimersweekly.com/
He wrote: I realized, I think unconsciously, this was really an incredible time. This was a gift to have my father, even though it was incredibly painful and it was a really hard thing to do. I just wanted to remember it, and I wanted to remember the things he said and how he looked and how much we loved each other. Check out his website http://www.dayswithmyfather.com/ .
He took care of his father until his death.
Remember that Alzheimer's Disease affects everyone differently. Phillip's story is very touching and real. Hope you enjoy it. His book should be out in May.
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Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
How has this disease changed you?
Have you looked at Alzheimer's Weekly this week. There is an article called 'Days with my Father'. This article is written by Phillip Toledano. He writes about how there was a sudden death of his mother which ended up with him being the sole caretaker of his father. http://www.alzheimersweekly.com/
He wrote: I realized, I think unconsciously, this was really an incredible time. This was a gift to have my father, even though it was incredibly painful and it was a really hard thing to do. I just wanted to remember it, and I wanted to remember the things he said and how he looked and how much we loved each other. Check out his website http://www.dayswithmyfather.com/ .
He took care of his father until his death.
Remember that Alzheimer's Disease affects everyone differently. Phillip's story is very touching and real. Hope you enjoy it. His book should be out in May.
www.google.com
Sincerely,
Marie Fostino
Alzheimer's A Caretakers Journal
Seaboard Press An Imprint Of James A Rock Pub., Co.
http://www.mariefostino.com/
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